You are getting married to someone who's already in the military or are. You guys planning on going in. Either way the mindset. That you really do have to set yourself on is just realizing well wow. You know I'm gonna be away from. Everything that I know start planning things of what you want to do. I would definitely say. That as the military spouse. I it's important for you to plan. What it is that you're gonna do YouTube was. Something that I'm like. You know what I'm super passionate about and I really want to do. This a lot of military wives pick up the habit. Something that you actually have to be passionate about if it's just. Something that you're doing just for a gig. You know it's not gonna last so fix your mind on something with. You in the window.
You know that you're coming straight in high school you're going to go to college then get right into. That high of getting your own home being back with your spouse or newly spouse or whatever is over it's like. This business just like. They read into business. Because their life is pretty much on schedule and it's now your life so being married like. I said is one thing but being married at the military is different a whole nother challenge. All on its own. Because like. I said your life. You guys are flies is not in your hands it's really in someone else's hands but technically. I don't like to look at it like. That's because. I say my guys in control overall so he's running my life but overall it's like. You don't get to just say well. I want to get up and move -.
I would never move to Connecticut. I want to get up and move -. Whatever you just got to know that you should never want to be. That personal stylist to ask God to make sure. That you end up in a place. Where God wants. You to be ask him to put his hands over your your spouse. Where they're going away. I would recommend going back and watching those videos. That I posted with my spouse and I were separated. He went through the whole BMT. We finally met up after. You graduated at his graduation. All of that I would say you're just. Now going in it's really important to try to educate yourself as much as. You can this is a whole nother world a whole nother vocab a lot of things. You don't know and some things it's best to it's best to try to Oh God it's best to try to educate yourself as much as. You can because myself left. I remember you used to always tell.
Me you know look at this or look at that and look at the other and I didn't really want to accept the fact. That he was really gonna be leaving me until. I had to finally accept. It and it was. More like okay Wow see. That I'm watching all these videos trying to understand well. This week they're going through. This and this week different do. That and of course you're not there and you're not with them but at least. You know more or less what's really going on instead of just being some clueless person so. You know this week let. Me write to him encourage him and say. You know congratulations on getting your name stitch. You know I'm happy.
That today you got your head shape like just don't be so much in the dark trying to be. You know that support system. Because they're really gonna need. You don't Matt be empty during that be empty system understand. That going into the military. They are being trained. They are being broken down to be built back up they're being trained that's a whole. Another honey that's a whole nother that's a whole. Another guy. You deal with so that's something to take into consideration as well so let. Me go back to what you were asking I would like to know. More about the pros and cons of feeling young military marriages so everybody's marriage is different. You never can compare your marriage to anybody else but I would just say.
You know that you're coming straight in high school you're going to go to college then get right into. That high of getting your own home being back with your spouse or newly spouse or whatever is over it's like. This business just like. They read into business. Because their life is pretty much on schedule and it's now your life so being married like. I said is one thing but being married at the military is different a whole nother challenge. All on its own. Because like. I said your life. You guys are flies is not in your hands it's really in someone else's hands but technically. I don't like to look at it like. That's because. I say my guys in control overall so he's running my life but overall it's like. You don't get to just say well. I want to get up and move -.
I would never move to Connecticut. I want to get up and move -. Whatever you just got to know that you should never want to be. That personal stylist to ask God to make sure. That you end up in a place. Where God wants. You to be ask him to put his hands over your your spouse. Where they're going away. I would recommend going back and watching those videos. That I posted with my spouse and I were separated. He went through the whole BMT. We finally met up after. You graduated at his graduation. All of that I would say you're just. Now going in it's really important to try to educate yourself as much as. You can this is a whole nother world a whole nother vocab a lot of things. You don't know and some things it's best to it's best to try to Oh God it's best to try to educate yourself as much as. You can because myself left. I remember you used to always tell.
Me you know look at this or look at that and look at the other and I didn't really want to accept the fact. That he was really gonna be leaving me until. I had to finally accept. It and it was. More like okay Wow see. That I'm watching all these videos trying to understand well. This week they're going through. This and this week different do. That and of course you're not there and you're not with them but at least. You know more or less what's really going on instead of just being some clueless person so. You know this week let. Me write to him encourage him and say. You know congratulations on getting your name stitch. You know I'm happy.
That today you got your head shape like just don't be so much in the dark trying to be. You know that support system. Because they're really gonna need. You don't Matt be empty during that be empty system understand. That going into the military. They are being trained. They are being broken down to be built back up they're being trained that's a whole. Another honey that's a whole nother that's a whole. Another guy. You deal with so that's something to take into consideration as well so let. Me go back to what you were asking I would like to know. More about the pros and cons of feeling young military marriages so everybody's marriage is different. You never can compare your marriage to anybody else but I would just say.
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