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YOUNG AND MARRIED WATCH THIS BEFORE YOU BECOME A MILITARY SPOUSE! 3

That the military on its own and being young it's already a challenge to because. You guys are just there figuring out your lives. Unless you're just. Someone who knows for a fact. If you're someone who's just completely clueless and you don't. Even know what you want in life tumble get married. Because honestly it's just a married is completely saying I choose to die and I am. Now putting another person themes before myself. Because you cannot be selfish in a marriage marriage is not about you anymore does.

It matter what Sasha feels or what Sasha thinks. You you signed. That away you sign on the dotted line and that's what you just. You have to remember statistically. That I mean. I have found so. Many videos turn so. Many stories of people. You you got married at 19 had a baby at 20 divorce of 21 and it's just crazy like it's crazy so. It is challenging on its own communication is definitely key the prose is just. And it is difficult to find a good job in 21, but I manage to do it, I used a resume writting service https://legaljobsearcher.com/ and it helped me to make a good resume. That stability that's what I was saying I'm not going to get into the fact. That you have insurance and you have a home and all these things yes but most importantly. I would just say the stability. That gives you especially as a young couple I'm not going to say. That it's that it's gonna be easy or you or you still won't struggle. Because you have to work your way up and everything else for everything in life but it's a blessing because. It just gives.

That that stepping stool for life. It gives you just an advantage. You come in this young it's a good experience um. I would say going into the military like. I said in my previous video with my spouse. It definitely disciplined my spouse in different ways and help can grow into a better man and with. Me it helped. Me grow into a better woman. Because it challenged. Me a lot in different areas to separation I'm having to grow up take care of things step up. When my spouse wasn't there. It challenged. Me a lot and it challenged. Me to grow more closer to God so I'm very grateful for that would say. That is approach. You know you have to take advantage of the situations.

That is at hand going through. That depression. I probably could have ended up on a different end but it led. Me closer to God so I'm grateful for that experience the cons to that I would say just being separated from your spouse and not really knowing whether. That can happen. You are a prayerful life prayerful husband and you know that God is in control over. All you don't live your life in fear thinking that but going into the military it's something that they already have programmed in their brain. I can be deployed. I will be separated from my family. This is a this is a very big reality for me that's something that they're trained to think like so they're at there. Any program like.

That so you being that prayerful why I've been asking God to protect and cover your home and protect and cover your family that's that I was. That wife that was separated for my spouse for a long time and it's not a good feeling it's not a good thing it's very challenging it's very hard it's very sad. Some days it gets better and some days. It gets worse and that's just being the complete. You know just telling the complete truth a lot of people will tell. That you have to stay busy um keep yourself busy which is true. It helps but then.

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